What is Real Transformation

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Your fulfillment transform when your Context of Life is transformed. This is Real Transformation! Together we explore your view of 'The Big Picture', and fill in the gaps of understanding supported by direct experience and neuroscience.

While you were busy building success by societal standards, I was asking myself, and teachers, "What IS Life?" There's a satisfactory answer!

You have a physical body and a non-physical Self. It's your non-physical Self that is having the experience of your body, mind and world.   You'll feel lost or disoriented regarding lasting fulfillment, if you're living from an incomplete context of Life. You thought you checked all the boxes, yet still feel the same emptiness.

Everyone I've asked has agreed Life is providing us with lessons, and they repeat if we don’t get them. And the consequence increases until we do...When we get them, and integrate the learning, we no longer need to experience that type of pain in our lives. And our quality of life improves! Life is a School!

There's a Goal Line and a Soul Line in Life! 

Experiences finally make perfect sense, and you're left feeling ease and trust. Peace of Mind that lasts! And,  spreads to your body and Life.

You’ll understand how the events, meetings, occurrences, and circumstances in your Life have been leading to what your non-physical Soul is here learning, for maximum benefit and your highest good.  This approach to relationship transforms conflict into intimacy, because you look for the lesson. 

I love the saying,"You can be right or you can be loving, but not both at the same time." Our ego-mind identity is the part that defends it's positionand needs to be right. The Soul just yearns for connection.

People in positions of power or leadership can get caught in the habit of having the right answer, versus authentic communication toward the end goal, collaboration. In a love relationship this looks like harmonious loving companionship.

Imagine what happens to conflicts, or how it might inform a charged conversation when you can remember that you're on a soul-journey together. You’ll end up leaning more into your partner’s needs and this creates a win-win reciprocity ~ nothing is more nourishing in a relationship!  So much better than contractual. 

The tools and perspectives that you will learn make the journey fun , humorous, and speedy. Yes there will be challenges, but you will meet them in a wholly different way that brings you closer together and creates intimacy. Conflict turns into Intimacy.

Soul-based relationship counseling acknowledges the view that Life is a school, and relationships are the place we most readily see where we can grow in our ability to Love more openly. (See Youtube video "What is Spiritual Psychology)

I empower people with the tools to master conscious relating in their relationships. Informing people on the pitfalls of unconscious relationship dynamics  and how to do it consciously, for maximum enjoyment and evolution, 

There is so much available when we can relate from the heart and soul that is not available when we relate from personality/ego.  Reciprocity being a big one. Empathy is another. 

Our egos are normally what gets in the way, our stuff or theirs, or the ego fights to be right rather than connect. That is the job of heart