What is Real Transformation

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The thing I transform is Context, people’s perspective about Life and themselves. That’s why it truly is real transformation, because context is what shapes meaning, drives decision-making and builds connection and empathy. Change the context and you radically change the meaning of something.

For over 120 years science has known everything that appears to be matter, is just highly condensed energy. Yet we’ve not considered the impact on our Self-image, explicitly ‘What We Are’. Knowing changes everything!

The shift to awakening is a radical departure from what we normally think about ourselves and Life. Through Spiritual psychology, making sense of our experiences through the lens this is a school for the Soul, helps people understand what Life is trying to show them.

Everyone has noticed that life is providing us with lessons and they repeat if we don’t get them and the consequence increases until we do get them. When we get them and integrate them we no longer need to experience this pain and our quality of life improves. 

Using the perspective of a soul experiencing karmic lessons, Life experiences make sense. You’ll understand how the events, meetings, occurrences, and circumstances in your life have been painting a picture of what your non-physical Soul is here learning, for maximum benefit and your highest good.

There are two axises in the human experience the goal line and the learning line. The goal line is the axis you move along towards your objective or dream. The learning line is everything that is going to come up as resistance or limitation along the way. All of it is for our evolution. 

In the context of relationship the objective is moving towards unconditional loving, towards Self and *Others.

Soul based Relationship Counseling; a means to realize our full potential as non physical beings incarnate into a physical body for the purpose of learning love.

Informing people on the pitfalls of unconscious relationship dynamics (hot link) and how to do it consciously, for maximum enjoyment and evolution. I empower people with the tools to have conscious relating in their relationships. There is so much available when we can relate from soul that is not available when we relate from personality. 

Our egos are normally what gets in the way, our stuff or theirs, or because the ego fights to be right rather than connect. That is the job of heart and soul!

Imagine what happens to conflicts, or how it might inform a charged conversation when you can remember that we’re on a soul journey together. You’ll end up leaning more into your partner’s needs and this creates a win-win reciprocity ~ nothing is more nourishing in a relationship!

The tools and perspectives that you will learn make the journey fun , humorous, and speedy. Yes there will be challenges, but you will meet them in a wholly different way that brings you closer together and creates intimacy.